Let me share with you a moving story about Buddy Holly’s mother, written by Spencer Leigh, which I read some time ago in the Independent:
On Valentine’s Day in 1959, just 11 days after the air crash that killed her son, Ella Holly wrote to the families of the other performers who had died, the Big Bopper and Richie Valens. They are beautifully composed letters, expressing her bewilderment and grief, and they reveal her conviction that they will be reunited in Heaven.
What makes the correspondence extraordinary is that she wrote a similar letter to the widow of the pilot, Roger Peterson. She did not cast any blame, although the accident occurred largely owing to his inexperience. She said: “We are crushed by this terrible tragedy and the loss of our son, and we know you are suffering the same…our hearts go out to you because we know what you are going through.”
More than fifty years on, this letter indicates how Buddy Holly had been raised and how his parents had shaped his personality. It is often said that rock ‘n’ roll was the music of rebellion, a response to the dull, conventional lives of the previous generation. There is none of that in the Buddy Holly story.
In these days when, after every news event, the media immediately look for someone to blame – that social worker with too many cases, a tired driver whose eyes closed for a second, the doctor faced with an emergency at the end of a long shift – how heart-warming to read about the forgiveness of Buddy Holly’s mother.
Have a very happy Christmas.
What strikes me about this, Michael, is that the border around the tree makes me feel that either the tree or the sky could be negative space, yet each stands out as prominent without competing. Beautiful feel to this!
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Many thanks, Howard. I purposely used a wide brush for the sky which meant I had to keep a little distance from the tree. I also wanted it to shine somehow, and the white line manages that, I hope!
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It definitely worked well.
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Your exquisite Pine Tree is a beautiful symbol of love and peace for me. Thank you for sharing this poignant story of love. Peace for your family, Michael.
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Thank you as always, Sharon, for your kind words.
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Forgiveness, in my personal life, is another word for unconditional love and…freedom.
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I can understand that. Buddy Holly’s mother could have harboured a resentment for the rest of her life – or acknowledged the similarities in her and the pilot’s family’s position. By doing the latter, she set herself free from all sorts of destructive emotions.
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Spot on…
Happy Christmas to you and yours.
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How lovely. Thank you for sharing 🙂
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Many thanks, Rosie.
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This is a wonderful post about the power of forgiveness and your image is delightful-Merry Christmas Michael!
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Thank you – it’s a wonderful story I feel.
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Glorious colours and a heartwarming story. I remember his songs!
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Thank you, Eleanor.
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I like how the tree looks like it is gracefully holding up the sky, and happy to help out. Somehow that touches me.
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Many thanks, Claudia. ‘Happy to help out’ – I like that.
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A gentle, lovely story and image from a gentle soul. Love them both, Michael, and thank you for sharing. Happy Christmas to you and yours, my friend!
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Thank you, Laura, and the very same to you!
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Lovely story and a cracking tree – thanks for our hard copy which arrived yesterday! God Jul!
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Thanks, John. The very same to you and the family. I hope you get some snow.
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Reflecting the spirit of the season, both image and story. (K)
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Many thanks.
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Happy Christmas, Michael!
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And to you, Richard.
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Interesting how some people can forgive, and how some people are unable to do this. I wonder how I would feel in such a terrible situation. Fabulous lively Christmas Tree.
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Indeed, that’s what made the story so interesting to me. I’m not sure I’d have her courage and open-heartedness.
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No, I’m not sure I would either.
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Dear Michael, this is heart-warmingly beautiful. Thank you – yours Bálint
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Thank you, Bálint, very kind.
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What a lovely story. Thank you for sharing.
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